Also to add to your experience, I have had a similar experience. I am in El Paso, Texas. When I got here I had been studying from books and videos, mostly books for 4 years. I had an excellent understanding of breathing, theory, basic postures, basic training, training sequences, and some Qigong and the theory behind qigong. I also learned a couple forms from books, applications, and vaguely about Jing and push hands.
I started out with Chen style and had knee pain at the time. As we all know Chen is punctuated with knee stamps and fast movements. Well the stamping movements aggrivated my knee pain and its almost impossible to detail the fast fa jing movements in a book, so that lasted about 5 months. Then I got a book on the Chen Man Ching style... Eh. I really didnt like it. No offense to any Chen Man Ching stylists, but a lot of the movements I learned from the book, looked like Chang San Feng's Gorilla doing Taiji... And it didnt fit my personality. Then I got a book from Waysun Liao, Tai Chi Classics, and after reading it, it got me interested in Yang style, even though it was one of Chen Man Ching's students that wrote the book. Since then I have been studying Grand Master Shouyu Liang's, Dr. Yang Jwing Ming's, and Grand Master Jou Tsung Hwa's books on the subject, and Qigong. Most of the credit goes to Dr. Yang Jwing Ming. The man is a genius at teaching.
Then I got here, and settled down with my current girlfriend and had a kid. I then decided to embarq on the quest
for a teacher... I started out at a well known local Taiji teacher who teaches a Temple Style 400 movement long form, and Taiji basics at a local college. I ensured him I would be 100% dedicated. He only had 2 students complete the whole form, so I was excited. I was gonna be #3... I was also planning on taking personal classes... Well he wanted $400 for 3 months of practice, and I would pay every 3 months. I wanted to make payment arangements so he dropped the price to $250. I was excited. Well now its time for my 1st class... I was there 15 minutes early and waited 45 minutes, he never showed. I called him and he rescheduled for the next week. Next week I had a financial issue, and asked if I could pay him on the 2nd class, so he rescheduled the first class another week out and told me that money is not important, its all about teacher and student relationship.... lol... well now its time for my 3rd class, still having financial issues. I called to see if I could pay 1/2 now and 1/2 on my next class, he said no very rudely, and hung up on me... Needless to say, that was the end of him... I think he may have been testing my sincerity and preserverence, but my family comes first, and he was wasting my time with them for no good reason. Plus he angered my wife because I cancelled plans to make room for his classes. It is not ancient China and the testing was not necessary. He could have tested me while he taught.
The next place I found was Shaolin Wushu Kung Fu... Which is where I am at now. He charges $55 for 8 classes. He supposedly teaches the Yang Lu Chan, or the Yang Chen Fu, one of those, long forms. He hasnt taught us yet, but different students and papers say different things... When I first got there, I demonstrated the forms I knew. He corrected me becuase when I done the form, I bobbed up and down, meaning my center of balance changed, which was incorrect. When I started practicing correctly, after about a month of correct practice, my knee pain completely disappeared. He started by teaching us the 42 movement competition form and applications. No Jing involved... Then a short Taiji Sword. Then started on meditation and internal aspects... Then he asked us to learn a 24 movment form and applications from a dvd, which I am now teaching, and the applications involve Jing which he just taught us with my help. My teacher is teaching Taiji backwards because of the experiences he had. He learned in Juarez mexico and they trained 8 hours a day, and hes teaching us what he knows in 1 hour a day. And he doesnt know how to break it down in order. So currently I am helping him by assisting him with providing students with basic info, and teaching certain aspects he leaves out. Also I am letting him read some of my books from Dr. Yang that I think will help him iron out the confusion of his students that never read a Taiji book or know what to expect. I am not trying to teach for him, but help him by leading from behind, because he asked for my help since his english is good, but he has a hard time explaining certain things, and some of his training hes not 100% clear on the why aspect. But nonetheless he is a GREAT teacher, and very knowledgable, just needs guidance, and I plan on sticking with him for a long while.
As you can see, there always wont be good teachers around you all the time. The point is, look for the resources you DO have and make the best of them. My teacher now is not the best I could ask for. There are no YMAA schools around, and through this forum, and sticking with him, I learned he is VERY knowledgable, and a good teacher, just not properly skilled Taiji teacher as far as a syllibus, which he does not have. His main teaching is in Shaolin, so he teaches Taiji as Shaolin. External to internal. Which is why the other students are lead astray, which we are trying to correct now. So maybe if you are too far from those YMAA schools, you should try practicing alone, or find a temporary teacher which you consider to be partly the truth. Some skills only a teacher can lead you too, still, a teacher can only lead you to the door. Its up for YOU to enter the temple. So basically once your on the right path, its very hard to be led astray. Consider your sources wisely and discard what you thing useless, and adapt what you know to be usefull.